Previous Episodes:
Episode #94 – Letting Go… of Fear and other emotional barriers, with Janice Holly Booth
Episode #78 – Chris’ Personal Story: The Business of Dying
Maintain Yourself While Parenting: The Lost Decade – Ep142
Episode #20 – Parenting and The Lost Decade
Listen for the following takeaways from the Show:
- Empty Nest Syndrome is the process parents go through during that transition of children leaving the house.
- There are more multi-generational households right now.
- As the kids get older – Their freedoms go up, and the parent’s control goes down.
- Encouragement and Compassion are important as the kids grow.
- What role does a parent fill as the children get more freedom?
- Empty nest is also when you go from providing to supporting.
- Even with all the freedom they now have, it is still critical to make sure that you are still there for them.
- When a child leaves, do you close the door on them coming back to the house?
- Suggest planning for this transition as late as 16 years old or sooner.
- Letting go is the biggest struggle for the parents.
- Where does a parent step in to help when their child struggles, especially when it comes to needing money.
- After the kids leave, you need to avoid negative coping when dealing with the reality of their freedom.
- Each parent should give themselves and the other grace when working through the change.
- When is the time that you push your kids forward?
- When is the time that you allow them to come back for a life reset?
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Oh I went through that this year with Will..it was tough! But he is coming back around and we are starting on a new path. Me trying not to tell him what to do, but always be here for him.
Now I need to figure out who I am again and reinvent myself. Doing it. Slowly
It can definitely be TOUGH!!!
yeah, that age-old question: “who am I?” that is a tough one too!